Comments on: Cool Sophisticated Charm http://jdakar.com/2008/07/05/cool-sophisticated-charm/ I’m sure you’ve heard about me; if you haven’t, you will. Fri, 05 Dec 2008 02:10:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Genuine Lady http://jdakar.com/2008/07/05/cool-sophisticated-charm/#comment-710 Genuine Lady Tue, 08 Jul 2008 19:59:39 +0000 http://jdakar.com/?p=249#comment-710 Interesting...I would agree that he (Bereola) may have a lil bit of "charm". At least when he writes, because his opening had me wanting to see what he was talking about so I continued to read the post. Had it not been interesting to me I would wouldn't have read the whole thing. But I would have to agree with Cortney I don't think it's something you can teach. You may able to learn about being "charming" but to actually be "charming" that's a different story. Interesting…I would agree that he (Bereola) may have a lil bit of “charm”. At least when he writes, because his opening had me wanting to see what he was talking about so I continued to read the post. Had it not been interesting to me I would wouldn’t have read the whole thing. But I would have to agree with Cortney I don’t think it’s something you can teach. You may able to learn about being “charming” but to actually be “charming” that’s a different story.

]]> By: TT http://jdakar.com/2008/07/05/cool-sophisticated-charm/#comment-695 TT Sun, 06 Jul 2008 23:34:51 +0000 http://jdakar.com/?p=249#comment-695 " Charm is nothing more than easy manners, a natural gift that makes you relatable to everyone..." Its seems the author has given us an easy going take on the uneasy topic of manners. He put a positive twist on using charm to bring out the best in ourselves and others. Bereola's examples of historic charmers give us a refreshing look at what charm in action looks like...Yeah plenty of people use it for their own selfish reasons, but looks like Bereolaesque aims to make the world a much more enjoyable place, starting with the man in the mirror...I can't knock his hustle! ” Charm is nothing more than easy manners, a natural gift that makes you relatable to everyone…” Its seems the author has given us an easy going take on the uneasy topic of manners. He put a positive twist on using charm to bring out the best in ourselves and others. Bereola’s examples of historic charmers give us a refreshing look at what charm in action looks like…Yeah plenty of people use it for their own selfish reasons, but looks like Bereolaesque aims to make the world a much more enjoyable place, starting with the man in the mirror…I can’t knock his hustle!

]]> By: J. Dakar http://jdakar.com/2008/07/05/cool-sophisticated-charm/#comment-692 J. Dakar Sun, 06 Jul 2008 20:20:31 +0000 http://jdakar.com/?p=249#comment-692 Nah, that's the author of the post, Bereola. Nah, that’s the author of the post, Bereola.

]]> By: D.J.S. http://jdakar.com/2008/07/05/cool-sophisticated-charm/#comment-691 D.J.S. Sun, 06 Jul 2008 18:54:57 +0000 http://jdakar.com/?p=249#comment-691 I def. agree with you Cortney..you cannot teach one to possess it; they're just born with it. p.s is that you in the picture J. Dakar? I def. agree with you Cortney..you cannot teach one to possess it; they’re just born with it.

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is that you in the picture J. Dakar?

]]> By: Cortney http://jdakar.com/2008/07/05/cool-sophisticated-charm/#comment-690 Cortney Sun, 06 Jul 2008 05:49:11 +0000 http://jdakar.com/?p=249#comment-690 I've always thought that charm isn't something you can teach people...imo, you have it or you don't. I'm really not trying to come down on you, but I don't think you answered the question about what makes you a qualified source regarding correct etiquette and "how to be a gentleman". I think the answer you gave was a bit superficial, especially the part about getting things you didn't deserve. Around these parts I live in, a man who uses his 'charm' to get things/women/whatever that he doesn't deserve is said to be "running game". On the flip side, a man who uses his own merit and integrity to obtain higher goals in life has the makings of a true gentlemen, but again this is my opinion. Someone please let me know if I'm taking this the wrong way and I will gladly re-evaluate my opinion. It seems like your posts are vague and generalized, and your choice of words and your writing technique makes me feel uneasy. I feel like I'm reading a salesman's pitch. Maybe a post with some substance will help me understand who you are. Well, that's my two cents. Everyone has a critic, eh? I’ve always thought that charm isn’t something you can teach people…imo, you have it or you don’t.

I’m really not trying to come down on you, but I don’t think you answered the question about what makes you a qualified source regarding correct etiquette and “how to be a gentleman”. I think the answer you gave was a bit superficial, especially the part about getting things you didn’t deserve.

Around these parts I live in, a man who uses his ‘charm’ to get things/women/whatever that he doesn’t deserve is said to be “running game”. On the flip side, a man who uses his own merit and integrity to obtain higher goals in life has the makings of a true gentlemen, but again this is my opinion.

Someone please let me know if I’m taking this the wrong way and I will gladly re-evaluate my opinion. It seems like your posts are vague and generalized, and your choice of words and your writing technique makes me feel uneasy. I feel like I’m reading a salesman’s pitch. Maybe a post with some substance will help me understand who you are.

Well, that’s my two cents. Everyone has a critic, eh?

]]> By: brran1 http://jdakar.com/2008/07/05/cool-sophisticated-charm/#comment-689 brran1 Sun, 06 Jul 2008 00:42:55 +0000 http://jdakar.com/?p=249#comment-689 What's good Bereola? Where can I cop your book? What’s good Bereola? Where can I cop your book?

]]> By: GladItsNight.com http://jdakar.com/2008/07/05/cool-sophisticated-charm/#comment-687 GladItsNight.com Sun, 06 Jul 2008 00:10:07 +0000 http://jdakar.com/?p=249#comment-687 Hitler had it. But he used his gift of charm to murder and kill innocent lives. Pimps have it. But they use it to exploit and empty women. Hitler had it. But he used his gift of charm to murder and kill innocent lives. Pimps have it. But they use it to exploit and empty women.

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