Soon

It wasn’t until I looked at my desk calendar today that I realized I’ll be 25 in 25 days.

I’ve really learned a lot about myself these last few years.

I’m giving you the same opportunity with 25 random facts about me.

1. I have a younger brother who’s probably my best friend. People often think I’m an only child; for six years, though, I was.
2. I’m never not multitasking.
3. I’m not as well-read as I should be, or would like to be.
4. I’m never without my BlackBerry, but I do know how to disconnect from it.
5. I’d much rather text you than talk to you on the phone.

6. My closet is organized by function (jeans, khakis, shirts) and color (solids light to dark, then patterns). I have a separate closet for shorts, short-sleeved and t-shirts.
7. I don’t go a day without listening to music: I wake up listening to music; I go about my day listening to music; I fall asleep listening to music.
8. I have a hard time sleeping under anything more than sheets.
9. I hold the record at my high school of the most scholarship money ever awarded. Unfortunately, I don’t remember the total amount.
10. I keep my earrings in at all times and would not work for an organization that would disapprove.

11. I’ve studied four languages (Spanish, Latin, French and American Sign) but remember very little of any of them.
12. I love to cook, so I’m hoping to find a woman who won’t mind helping with the dishes.
13. I’m a virgin. I admit to lying about it when I was younger, but I no longer view it as something to be embarrassed by and now embrace it. The opportunity has presented itself a time or two, but I’ve waited this long, I think I’ll probably now wait until marriage.
14. I’m a HUGE procrastinator, but I always get the job done. In college, I began working six hours before a 20-something page senior business paper was due; I made a B.
15. My most prized possession is not my Lexus or my Rolex, it’s actually a tie between my diplomas and my music collection.

16. I’d love to one day act.
17. Nearly everything I do is an homage to my childhood friend Andrew who died a few weeks before our high school graduation.
18. I wear a ring daily that serves absolutely no purpose.
19. I shave every other day.
20. I’m 6′5″ but terrified of heights.

21. I’ve been told I snore, but I’ve never heard it. Until then I have to deny it.
22. My first concert was in 2007 — Norah Jones.
23. I have my memorial service already planned.
24. I want nothing more than to do good and do well & experience fatherhood.
25. I thought about committing suicide, but everyday I thank the Lord for letting me see another day.

Post Title Download: Christión – “Soon” from Ghetto Cyrano

15 Responses to “Soon”

  1. Mar 04, 09 at 12:31 am

    sunshyne84 said:

    12. If you doin all the cooking I will certainly help clean them. Fork, finger, tongue, whatever! lol

    13. A virgin? They still make those? j/k lol Hold on!!! Don’t be a victim lol

    15. I love my music collection too, I would cry if something happened to my cd shelf that I put together myself!

    20. wow ur extra tall!!

    21. Someone told me I talked in my sleep once. I don’t believe that. I usually get that hit or kicked them.

  2. Mar 04, 09 at 3:23 am

    withheld said:

    29 facts about me
    1. I am the youngest male of my mother’s four children.
    2. When I re-tell an exciting story my eyes swell w/ tears.
    3. I love music however, I lost my passion for music after I accepted Jesus as Christ in 2003.
    4. I got a DUI .
    5. I regret not finishing my education in culinary arts as opposed to management.
    6. I’ve only been in love once, with the first and only woman I told that I loved.
    7. Many people don’t know that I have a pretty decent singing voice because my demeanor is quiet.
    8. I prefer Ghostface Killah over any rapper in the game.
    9. I aspired to be a drum & bass D.J.
    10. I hate cats!
    11. My annoyance for children is not as genuine as I pretend it is.
    12. As a child I was afraid of the dark.
    13. I was a virgin until 22.
    14. I’ve been fortunate to have acted in movies, television and commercials.
    15. I’ve smoked cigars off and on for the past 2 years and I am now one month smoke free.
    16. My favorite book is Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe.
    17. I usually will let a mess build up before I clean it up immaculately.
    18. I was a pecto-ovo-lacto vegetarian for 2 years.
    19. I ran a marathon, yes, 26.2 miles.
    20. My favorite color is yellow.
    21. As an actor, I aspire to be like Jeffery Wright and Omar Shareef.
    22. The last time I boo-hoo cried was 4 years ago.
    23. I change my mind a lot.
    24. Out of all my siblings, I have the strongest bond with my oldest sister.
    25. John Coltrane’s music would be the soundtrack to my life.
    26. I don’t have a myspace or facebook account.
    27. I have a dark brown skin complexion but wish I was darker.
    28. Being the best father for my children means giving them all of my attention- which is why I don’t have any kids yet.
    29. My age can be calculated by the number of facts listed.

  3. Mar 04, 09 at 7:37 am

    brran1 said:

    I find it kinda humorous that I could’ve written many things on this list about myself, and that especially applies to #21. I’m innocent until proven guilty!

  4. Mar 04, 09 at 9:26 am

    TreasureCarelli said:

    Wow we have quite a bit in common…
    People think I’m an only child but I’m far from it,
    Definitely can’t go a day without music – my ipod is my bestfriend (lol),
    I’ve studied 4 languages too.—-Portuguese, Japanese, Amercian Sign & French (which actually comes naturally because my of creole roots and early exposure to it)
    I have a procrastination problem too.
    I too have had bouts with suicide but am extremely grateful to God for victory over it!!!
    I wear a ring often times just to deter the undesirable from approaching :)
    I’m an extremely private person almost to a fault so I’ll my randoms here…lol

  5. Mar 04, 09 at 9:45 am

    thismayconcernyou said:

    a sincere question: You have khakis in the closet. Do you still wear them?

    I don’t know a professional black man who still wears khakis anywhere. I don’t remember when we fell off the trend. But there was a subliminal memo that went out a few years back and put a halt to the fad.

  6. Mar 04, 09 at 10:54 am

    chi said:

    amen to #25; you never know what God has in store for you or all of us. but it’s amazing to find out.

  7. Mar 04, 09 at 11:22 am

    J. Dakar said:

    I’ve been told I talk in my sleep, too.

    I remember even crying in my sleep after dreaming that my brother had been killed. I woke up like, “What is going on?!” Then I remembered the dream.

  8. Mar 04, 09 at 11:26 am

    J. Dakar said:

    Thanks for sharing, and congratulations on being smoke-free.

    Since I’m such a procrastinator, I’m the same way with messes at times.

    I’ve heard nothing but great things about Things Fall Apart, so I’m definitely gonna check that out when I get a chance.

  9. Mar 04, 09 at 11:31 am

    J. Dakar said:

    Thanks for sharing.

    I wear my ring on my right hand now because when I wore it on the left, the wrong kind of women were approaching me, thinking I was married.

  10. Mar 04, 09 at 11:35 am

    J. Dakar said:

    I do. I was just thinking the other day how I used to wear khakis all the time and then I just stopped all of a sudden. I went out and bought a few pair shortly after. I’m bringing khakis back!

    I should have said pants, because I have other types in there, as well, not just khakis.

  11. Mar 04, 09 at 11:35 am

    J. Dakar said:

    Right you are!

  12. Mar 04, 09 at 11:51 am

    Artieka said:

    Thought my dad was the only tall person afraid of heights. He’s 6′6 and won’t visit me because I live in the mountains.

  13. Mar 04, 09 at 12:43 pm

    TreasureCarelli said:

    LOL that’s terrible but not surprising some chicks have no shame or self esteem….couple more we have in common are #5 and #16

  14. Mar 04, 09 at 3:32 pm

    Torie Michelle said:

    About 16 or so of those were also random things about me.

    I feel so lost now that my phone is malfunctioning and I can’t text using my qwerty keyboard. I can’t get in touch with people! You know, because there’s no way I’m actually calling.

    I thought about working for Disney until I realized they have these stipulations (about every little thing) that they call “The Disney Look” that would prevent me from showcasing my fabulous earring collection.

    By now I should be able to speak Spanish, Japanese, French, and Italian but because of my supreme procrastination skills and my propensity to get bored easily, I speak…English. And some Spanglish…lol

    I don’t snore but I’ve been told I talk in my sleep by a whole slew of people so I suppose I do.

    And I wear my class ring on my ring finger to ward off unwanted attention from guys…lol j/k Actually, what has happened on a couple of occasions is that a guy will say “That’s a nice ring” and then try to drum up conversation. Always awkward.

  15. Mar 04, 09 at 4:01 pm

    Asabi said:

    #13 is a good look. Congrats on that. I know there are more people that wished they waited. Great list.


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